are people really impartial towards women ?

Indian women who is always ready to sacrifice her life for others and she burn  like a candle to give lights to others .still what kind of respect she have in Indian society??we always claim that”jaha women kaa worship hota hai waha god rehta hai “okay I am agree but in today’s time reality is far from this fact because women are not even getting a single percent of that respect as she deserve .we Indian people are known for our kindness .we worship even trees and non living things. But what a hypocrisy !!!! in twenty first century too we lament when a girl child take birth in a family .i do not know when people will be impartial to women.still people think that only a women is responsible what happened to her whether it is a matter of eve teasing and something else.just ask yourself is it not like that ?do not we think that a women is responsible for her bad condition??why we are not changing out mentality ??now our country countryman also became partial towards women .and  .there is a lot of difference between claiming and acting(as we always claim that only we respect the women like god )and when things goes wrong then we tell that it is western culture.i do not think any western country do not want to give respect to women and women’s condition are better there then that our country.but we have became habitual to blame on others for every bad situation .we all know what happened in DHAULA KHUAN case .after the death of that girl villagers of DHAUJI’S village are claiming that the girl was only responsible for what happened to her.they also said that why she choose night shift when it is not safe for girls .and why these places are not safe for them may be because those people send their  family’s anti social aliments on the road ..will any body ask them,  is day shifts are safe for them ??.i do not think there is any girl who want that such thing should be happened to her but those people will never understand the fact because they do not have mind and heart too understand that .for them only girl is responsible what’s happening with them . they will never try to give some moral lessons to their family’s anti social aliment  who are responsible for that.and it is a tragedy crimes against women are increasing day by day .and still many things are going wrong against women on domestic front and baby killing and eve teasing and many crimes .our moral character has been decline too much that every one want to run in the race and want to crush other people.if we need to gain anything once again then it is our moral character and need to think in a bigger  way  .and our politicians who are always ready to speak on HINDU OR MUSLIM they are also quite now…….in last sorry for many grammatical mistakes lol.

It has been two years of Mumbai attacks ,but we all indians still remember that unfortunate moment very clearly, when we lost many innocent people and how many mothers lost their sons and how many sisters lost their brothers and how many wives lost their husbands. and whenever  we listen about that it seems that still those things are going on in front of our eyes again . kasab is alive and  when we see that person, he  always remind us Mumbai attacks and innocent people’s untimely death .who do not know that he is main prepator of Mumbai attack  . he has became so notorious that every one is ready to recognize him that he is one of those murders who kill innocent people in the hotel. By d way we have all proves against him .we have videos against him . And may be people also ready to recognize him from a distant. Still he is alive why!!!But I think government will never understand the pain of those families and those soldiers who sacrifices their lives there in hotels. That’s why still no  strict action.

Again and again Indian government are giving order to change his jails .we have already spent  rupees 2 crore on him(may be more then two crore).he is living like celebrity and oh oh latest news is that even politicians also asking him how are you mr kasab ?great!!!!! Indian politicians are always full of humanity .they always remember rules and law when it comes to the question of their comfort other wise again and again we remind them what’s the thing rule and regulation is ??.okay let it go I will not talk about politics here now………….now came to the point on Mumbai attacks and those terrorists.hm why we spent two crore rupees on him when we all know he is culprit??Why he is still alive? now government want Hadley too what they will do with hadely ?may be same behave as they are doing with kasab like  whenever  he will do nonsense things then they will change his jails .may be again government would be ready to spent  two crore rupees on Hadley one more time. What about justice man ??oh oh how can we forget it is same Indian judicial system who can sell out justice for rupees25000(in Bhopal gas tragedy)….people were waiting for justice there and when they get it then what kind of justice ?i have doubt on such justice where people were waiting since 25 years and after twenty five years they got justice JAHA PE CULPRITS KO 2 HOURS PRISION MAI RAKH KE 25000 KE LIYE CHOD DIYA GAYA ??..........and what about raj thakre who always claim that Mumbai only belongs to marathi .i do not think the soldiers and innocent people who lost their lives was only marathis.and what he and his party was doing when terrorists were killing peoples ??why he did not take any action then ?but these shameless politicians I really do not have any words to say against them because every day we say such words and I think now we should discover a new word for them .

how unfortunate is it ?we can not do anything in such cases because neither we are government nor we are judicial system. We can only write here and there .and then would talk about what government did good and bad with kasab and all terrorists ?and may be some talks would be about major sandip unnikrishana and other brave soldiers who sacrifice their lives to save this country.how can we forget those brave hearts who laid their lives for us in their early youth. If we can do anything then pray for those brave hearts and for those innocent people who lost their lives there.may god rest in peace of their souls.and may be our government will also understand this thing soon because we all want justice not money and charity .and who are responsible for such shame they should be punished and punished very soon.please Indian government and our judicial system make it quick ….i wish they could listen us …

a sparrow and her fly

A sparrow who was born free ,

As she grows up

She put up in the cage ,

Just because she wanted to fly ,

Fly high in the sky ,

In the cage she lost her wings every day ,

She die every day ,

Still fighting with the cage and wings ,

Because somewhere in the corner of her heart ,

There is a hope ,

To stand up again ,

To fly high in the sky

……..once again…..

khoye raste ....

Jane kyon rahe badal gayi ,

Har khushi kyo begani ban gayi ,

Chur chur ho gaye sab sapne,

Ret kee jaise jane kab sab ud gaye,

Jane zindgi kab hume chod ke chal di ,

Hum dhundhte hi reh gaya apna wajod ,(identity)

Aur sab kuch chod ke hume ,

Naa jane manzil bhi kaha chal di ,

suicide versus education system .....

Suicide ,it’s always my favorite topic to talk about.i always eager to know what’s the reason behind suicide ?why people commit suicide ?when I feel sad I think about suicide .as usual I was talking about suicide to one of my friend.i asked her what’s the easiest way of suicide ?then she told me I think take poison is a cool idea .when we will die then we will not feel pain too.then I intrupt her with a question .what would be happen then if we will fail to do that.then may be there would be two situations in front of us.one is we will face worst condition .second is tha people will taunt on us by saying “hey you were going for suicide then what happened?”now these days no one take it serious when any one talk about suicide .it has became a joke these days (lol I am also doing same thing but some times we should listen what’s the reason behind such situation ?)

    Some times we hear about student’s suicides .why they do that ?reason is simple they have very much burden of study and parents again and again say them if you will not ……%marks then we will do this and that.every one want to make their children a doctor or an engineer. Specially in india most people do not want to know about the talent of their children.in such situation some times poor children think about parents dreams some times about their dreams .they always die between their dreams and their parents dreams .when they are not able to fulfill those dreams then they want to run away from life or may be want to run away from the situation.may be that’s why they want to go for suicide .

……I personally know a lady who is  teacher in a school.she had two children.now he have only one son because one of them commit suicide.not because he was fail or he was suffering from anything reason is very simple  but for a simple reason he gave up his life .answer is simple he did not get the marks as he expect .i think marks matter more then a person’s life ??????who is responsible for such situation ??parents,children or education system ??i think only and only our education system .what kind of education we are getting ?what we are getting from that education ?i think nothing .even  we do not have moral values .now these days every one want good marks instead of getting real knowledge .(I am also not a exception )….parents also ready to do anything for for their children’s marks .they are ready to give rupees  two lakh on the name of donation.no any one want to know the talent of a child .in which field they have interest.ok I accept that marks are important.but when we got those marks by unfair means then what ?

Then why our all education and work depends on marks ?after all marks are not the index of our ability.if we are getting good marks then it does not me mean we have knowledge too.may be we do not know what’s happening around us ?i saw many person who have knowledge about all fields but do not have good marks .then are they not intelligent ?

I am still confused who is intelligent in real sense ?the person who have good marks or the other one who have knowledge about all fields ?and if you all think that second option is right.then will it work in india without academic qualification ?

human life

har taraf bhagte dorte raste ,...

raste mai khada sehma saa admi .....

 charo taraf aadmi hi aadmi 

       phir bhi bada akela aadmi ..

  apne hi sawalo mai uljha .......

       sawalo kaa sikar aadmi ......

 zindgi se ladta hua ....

      har waqt maut se harta aadmi ....

anti social or not ??????

.i  liked ARUNDHATI RAI  as she is very famous and a good writer too.but when I read a essay written by her in my second year then I found oh she thinks like that .any way it was her personal view about war and she have all rights what she wants to say and write in her books or in her essays .she always supports Maoists as she think that they are doing such just because of their rights and for their freedom .they are fighting for common man. And they are in so much poor condition that everyone will have pity on them when they will see them but question is that if they are fighting for common man and wants freedom then why these all NAXALIS are making them their victims .and like ARUNDHATI RAI always say that she also speak for the common man and for the person who are fighting for their rights.ok agree with her. But some one should ask her when NAXALIS  make their victims of those soldiers who are fighting for us not for their rights .they are fighting for our country to those NAXALIS  and when those NAXALIS  kill them then will any one is ready to give answer whether those soldiers are not common man ?and then no one wants to speak for them neither ARUNDHATI RAI JI nor our political leaders who always support them like MAMATA BANERJEE .we know that NAXALIS  are fighting for their rights and demand for their rights is not a crime but their demands should be appropriate .and by killing innocent people how can they get their rights??And when government wants to take strict action oh oh no way government never wants to take any strict action against them so they really not worry about them. And before one month I read a report about Maoist how they are behaving with their own community’s members .now those people who were working for them wants to run away from their prison and they also wants freedom .when they are not giving freedom to their community how can they expect it from government??How much hypo critical they are???

And about ARUNDHATI RAI she have pity on india.oh no need to show pity on INDIA .if she wants to show pity then show on people not country because country without people is nothing. and I think there is no any country in world which give us so much freedom that people also have right to abuse India and have rights to say slogans against INDIA. We never expect to ARUNDHATI RAI that she will do such and she attend a meeting where anti Indian slogans were going on and GILLANI we can expect him such things as he always used to say such .it is not new from his side. he is a main leader of HURRIYAT .if things are going on wrong in Kashmir then he is main reason and he is always ready to provoke KASHMIRIS against india.and some where he is successful in his mission .may be government will take strict action against both of them. And  some leaders think about it only because election are  going on BIHAR .but good thing is that at least they think about country and if any one is saying wrong then they should be punished whether they are famous person or what ???and one more thing I want to say is that if we are a responsible citizen of a country then it is our responsibility towards country then we should not say such things that can be the reason of riots. And if government is giving us freedom then it is also our responsibility not to misuse for our personal things .they should think before speak because  they are not only famous persons of India but they are famous in world. We can never expect such things from them really. They are free to say what they want but when it comes on the country they should think about country too .

our virtues are important not look ......

 I read the letter of DR.A.P.J ABDUL KALAM JI .it was really amazing  .and we really need to put all things in mind and we really need to ask ourselves why we are still developing ?why we are not developed now ?and why we are so negative ?why we always want to see the dark side of things and our media too ?why we always want to blame on government for everything ?answer is so  simple because we are not doing anything but we want best facilities and best things in India. but when the time comes out to do something for the country we want to run away . we always blame that Indian roads are In a worst condition .but please think first who is  responsible ?of course we  are the responsible .we always want that Indian roads should be like America and  rules should be like DUBAI  .we always want to compare us with America and England  or developed country .but think for a moment if we want roads like America and England why we throw garbage on the road ?why we spit on the road ?and we make houses and throw all dust on the road .we all know why we do it because most of us do not want to consider it our property and if anyone is trying to stop anyone then they said it is none of your business .we will do anything on the road what we want .ok do it man but when things are going on wrong then why should we blame on government for everything ?when for a driving license we give bribe to a policeman and say do u know who we are??most of the persons who have  then who is responsible for breaking the rules ?of course we are the responsible .but after that we want that rules should be like America and roads too.they are hard working people .do not angry youngistan of course we too hard working and we too educated but why we want to use our bad manners .some times we all behave like illiterate  people means PADHE LIKHE  ANPADH .we are soo educated then show your  education by following the rules and do not spit on roads and throw garbage on the road if we want roads like America .i m not only saying this thing here we all really need to take it in our lives if we want a better place to live in a want roads like western countries …just follow the rules. be a change what a change we want in the society and in the country .change the things around you first .be a solution and if we do anything good then people really follow us .

Let me describe a story with all of you actually I was returning from college and I saw a man he was looking well mannered and dressed in a good manner .he was eating something and drinking too. After drinking  he throw disposal glass on the road this thing surprised me so how can we say that only illiterate people do that .no it’s india and everyone can do anything with out any hesitation or  any shame. It’s not important to wear good and  pricey  clothes but it’s matter how we behave and how we follow the rules ??looks does not matter our behave and virtues that matters.

are we really developed ?

India has been divided into two parts now. and we also accept the truth now.INDIA A or  INDIA B.otherwise we can also say BHARAT AND INDIA.in india we have all facilities .this india is growing very fast in economy.even U.S ‘S PRESIDENT BARACK OBAMA is saying that if any country is not doing business with india then you are not doing business at all.in this india we have all famous person and celebrity .they are not only well known in india but also so much famous in foreign country also.there are some who in forbe’s list (because they are among rich persons of he world )one could not say that they are also a part of india when they will see the poor persons here I mean how worst condition they have.

In bharat people even do not have food for eat.some times they sleep with out dinner and wake up without breakfast .for them tata birla and reliance does not exist .they also do not want to know about them because for them ROTI,KAPDA AND MAKAN (BREAD,CLOTHES,SHELTERS)not the growing economy of india.if they are not getting two time’s bread then there is no matter of happiness because our economy’s growth is 9.8 or whatever.

And main thing is that no anyone want to accept the truth that we have 55percent poor people in india.every time they want to show the development of india about to forget these persons I think they do not count them in Indians .thats why they do not accept the truth specially our government .thats why they want to show again and again the economic growth of india .still how we can say that we are progressed a place where is poor people are in majority.

And the question is that who is responsible for that .we always blame on government .no matter government is responsible but think about it at once are not we the responsible too ???when we want to work for poor people then some peoples always say that it is not easy to work for them.you will not get money .no anyone want to tell us how we can work for them ??so that they could also be a part of fast growing of india .its all about mentality problem bole toh NAA KHUD KARNA NAA DUSRO KO KARNE DENA ……

If they are facing such problem then any animal of alien is not responsible for that only we humans are responsible for that .

Only we have to do work for them if we want to change and make a better place to live in .because only we can make a better place because we are the youth of india and we have to take our responsibility about our motherland and its children.we need to adopt a child’s education otherwise w can also teach them in our free time .instead of wasting our time in flattery or make mockery on others use to need our time for something good .

May be then india will be super power with those 55% and then we will also say with proud that our whole india is progressive now and soon will be developed.

freedom

How many dreams I have taken ?

How many wishes I do?

But all dreams scattered,

All wishes get unfulfilled,

Not because I did not do work hard,

Not because I did not try to get them,

Not because I did not want that,

Answer is so simple…….

Just because ,I was not free to follow my dreams …

Free to get my wishes …..

life just goes on like a river it never stop.

LIFE IS TOO BIG ,

THERE ARE TOO MUCH SORROWS,

TOO MANY QUESTIONS ,

MANY THINGS TO DO ,

MANY THINGS TO FORGOTTEN ,

MANY THINGS TO REMEMBER,

SORROWS NEVER ENDS ,

MANY QUESTIONS LEFT UNANSWERED ,

MANY THINGS LEFT UNCOMPLETE,

MANY THING WE CAN'T FORGET,

MANY THING WE CAN'T ABLE TO REMEMBER AGAIN,

LIFE NEVER ENDS..........

WE DIED .......

LIFE GOES ON WITH SAME QUESTIONS,SAME THINGS AND SAME SORROWS AND WITH SAME REMEMBERABLE AND UNREMEMBERABLE MEMORIES ..

reality of girls in india specially in haryana

WELL LIVE IN A STATE WHERE PEOPLE OH OH NOT PEOPLE PARENTS LOVE THEIR SO CALLED HONOUR MORE THEN THEIR CHILDREN NOT CHILDREN AFTER ALL SPECIALLY GIRLS.EVERY TIME THEY TELL THEIR DAUGHTERS HEY YOU SHOULD DO THIS AND YOU SHOULD NOT DO THAT.AND IN VILLAGES (NOT IN ALL VILLAGES BUT MOST OF THAT)) HEY GIRL YOU SHOULD PUT YOUR DUPPATA ON YOUR HEAD.AND IF SHE DO NOT DO THIS THEN SICK MENTALITY’S PEOPLE SAYS THAT UNKNOWN’S DAUGHTER IS STUBRON AND U KNOW WHY SHE IS STUBBORN JUST BECAUSE SHE IS NOT PUTTING HER DUPPATA ON HER HEAD AND SHE IS DOING WHAT SHE WANT TO DO THIS IS ONLY THE REASON.WELL THIS IS SOO COMMON THING HERE .AND OUR CONSTITUTION ALSO GAVE THEM SIX RIGHTS AND ELEVEN DUTIES NEITHER THEY ARE GETTING THEIR RIGHTS NOR FREE TO DO THEIR DUTIES .THEY HAVE ONLY ONE RIGHT THIS IS THE DOMESTIC WORK .IN OUR GREAT STATE HARYANA ,..GIRLS ARE TOO MUCH RESPONSIBLE AND MATURE SINCE CHILDHOOD THEY ALL KNOW WHAT TO DO OR WHAT NOT TO DO ????THEY ONLY DO WHAT THEIR PARENTS TELL THEM TO DO BECAUSE THEY GAVE BIRTH TO THEM AND SHE HAVE TO PAY THE COST FOR THAT TO BE A GIRL.AND PARENTS ALWAYS PREFER A GIRLS SCHOOL OR GIRLS COLLEGE FOR THEM AND THEY HAVE NO FREEDOM TO TALK TO UNKNOWN MAINLY BOYS.AND EVERY TIME THEY ARE IN BOUNDRIES .EVERY TIME THEY ARE TOLD WHAT TO DO OR WHAT NOT TO DO ?THEY HAVE NO FREEDOM IN THE MATTER OF CHOOSING THEIR CLOTHES.TWO THEORIES WORKS HER ONE FOR BOYS AND ONE FOR GIRLS.ONE SIDE BOYS HAVE ALL FREEDOM OTHER SIDE GIRLS ARE ONLY A LITTLE PART OF THE FAMILY AND SOCIETY.EVERY TIME THEY GAVE UP HER DREAMS ,HER WISHES FOR THE FAMILY AND SOCIETY.WHEN I WAS ABOUT SIX OR SEVEN ….(HM I THINK) THEN IN MY VILLAGE A GIRL HAD BEEN KILLED BY THEIR PARENTS .AT THAT TIME IT WAS JUST A DEATH FOR ME .WHEN I GROW UP IT WAS A KILLING AND LATER I CAME TO KNOW ABOUT THIS THAT OH OHHHHHHHHH IT WAS SO CALLED HONOUR KILLING.IT IS NOT FIRST TIME I M LISTENING THIS KIND OF NEWS FIRST TIME NOT ONLY ME FOR ALL HARYANA’S GIRLS IT IS A OLD THING NOW .IT HAPPENES DAILY SOMETIMES IT BECAMES A NEWS AND SOMETIMES NOT.I ALSO REMEMBER ONE MORE INCIDENT FROM MY CHILDHOOD IT WAS ALSO ABOUT A GIRL (SHE WAS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL I HAVE EVER SEEN BEFORE AND WILL NOT SEE HER AGAIN BECAUSE SHE IS NO MORE LIVE HERE )……….SAME HAPPENED TO HER .SHE ALSO KILLED BY THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS. AND AT THE TIME OF HER DEATH THERE WAS NO POLICE ,,,,,NO LAMENT .BECAUSE NO ANYONE REPORT FOR THAT .AND WHY THEY SHOULD HAVE LAMENT FOR THAT AFTER ALL IT WAS HONOUR FOR THE FAMILY TO SHOW THAT FOR THEIR HONOUR THEY ALSO CAN KILL THEIR GIRL ……..(I WILL NOT CALL THEIR DAUGHTERS BECAUSE IT WAS ONLY A GIRL FOR THE FAMILY AND THERE IS A LOT OF DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GIRL AND A DAUGHTER )……………….AND IF ANY BODY PLEASE ASK THOSE STUPIDS WHAT ABOUT THOSE BOYS WHO WERE ALSO RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS ?AND THE ANSWER WILL BE LIKE THIS NOW ….OHHHHHHHH HOW CAN WE KILL THE BOYS…THEY ARE NOT AS MUSH HONOUR FOR US ….IF WE WILL KILL THEM WHO WILL SUPPORT US .BY D WAY WHERE THERE HONOUR GOES WHEN THEIR SONS TEASE WITH GIRLS ON THE ROAD ,IN BUSES,IN TRAINS ,?????WHY THEIR FAMILIES WANT TO KILL THEM FOR SUCH BLOODY SHAME ???OH HO HOW CAN DO THEY THAT HM THEY ARE NOT THEIR GIRLS AFTER ALL .OH WHAT HAPPENED IF OUR BOY THIS AFTER ALL THIS IS THE AGE FOR THEM TO DO ENJOY BUT THIS THEORY ONLY WORKS FOR BOYS .AND WHICH THEORY WORKS ON GIRLS HM HEY THIS IS ONLY THE AGE FOR GIRLS WHEN THEY SHOULD KNOW HOW TO MAKE ROTIS ??HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HER FAMILY ??HOW TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY ??HOW TO BE MATURE ???WHAT TO SAY OR WHAT NOT TO SAY ??

THAT’S ALL HOWS LIFE IN HARYANA.THIS IS ONLY THE RIGHTS WE HAVE .I THINK ONLY ONE RIGHT EDUCATIONL RIGHT AND PEOPLE WANT TO EDUCATE THEIR GIRLS HERE BECAUSE IF THEY WILL BE SOME EDUCATED THEN THEY WILL FIND A SUITABLE BOY FOR THEM AND THIS IS ONLY A REASON PARENTS WANT TO EDUCATE THEIR GIRLS NOT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO MAKE INDEPENDENT THEIR GIRLS.AND IF ANY GIRL WANT TO LIVE MORE LIFE ON THIS EARTH THEN SHE HAVE TO DO WHAT HER FAMILY SAYS TO HER .AND ITS ALSO NOT A BIG THING NOW FOR US BECAUSE WE BECAME HABITUAL AND IF WE ALSO LOVE OUR LIFE THEN WE ALSO KEEP QUITE AND SIT DOWN ..THATS ALL ABOUT HARYANA AND HARYANA’S GIRLS…..

are poor people not a part of india specially delhi ?

 i feel so sad to know that delhi's government exile workers because the gov found that they are destroying the beauty of delhi .if they are feeling too much shame to accept the truth that poor people are also a part of our country then why gov only want to watch ?why government is not ready to take any action ?and if they are destroying the beauty of delhi then why they are not giving them homes?it is appearing that gov want to destroy poor peoples not poverty thats why they are making such stupid acts.if they feel soo much shame to call them indians then why they want to do anything for them and why we never want to give them the respect as much they deserve just because they are poor .if they will stop doing work for us then we really can not do alot.after all if they did for us in common wealth games we really not except to government that they will do such acts.well this is not really a permanent solution to send them out of delhi by d way they will again came then what Delhi government will do .and the problem is that no any one even speak about this .because we are too much busy with our schedules and specially our central government .hope very soon government will take some steps to improve the status of poor people .and still india has more then 55percentage of poverty but still we are developing country and it is also a strange thing that most rich person of the world also lives in india.but i m not going to understand is it a pride for us or not because most poor person also belong to india.and we can never think that we are a developing country till then every day we see soo many poor children aare working in homes ,shops ,restarudent and many places in this age they should be in school but they are working .this question always arise in my kind and i never find the answer of this question .if i should be happy on our progress or make lament on those poor person who died daily because of hunger ?who always have fight for food to dogs ?who always died while they were fighting for their rights ?