reality of girls in india specially in haryana

WELL LIVE IN A STATE WHERE PEOPLE OH OH NOT PEOPLE PARENTS LOVE THEIR SO CALLED HONOUR MORE THEN THEIR CHILDREN NOT CHILDREN AFTER ALL SPECIALLY GIRLS.EVERY TIME THEY TELL THEIR DAUGHTERS HEY YOU SHOULD DO THIS AND YOU SHOULD NOT DO THAT.AND IN VILLAGES (NOT IN ALL VILLAGES BUT MOST OF THAT)) HEY GIRL YOU SHOULD PUT YOUR DUPPATA ON YOUR HEAD.AND IF SHE DO NOT DO THIS THEN SICK MENTALITY’S PEOPLE SAYS THAT UNKNOWN’S DAUGHTER IS STUBRON AND U KNOW WHY SHE IS STUBBORN JUST BECAUSE SHE IS NOT PUTTING HER DUPPATA ON HER HEAD AND SHE IS DOING WHAT SHE WANT TO DO THIS IS ONLY THE REASON.WELL THIS IS SOO COMMON THING HERE .AND OUR CONSTITUTION ALSO GAVE THEM SIX RIGHTS AND ELEVEN DUTIES NEITHER THEY ARE GETTING THEIR RIGHTS NOR FREE TO DO THEIR DUTIES .THEY HAVE ONLY ONE RIGHT THIS IS THE DOMESTIC WORK .IN OUR GREAT STATE HARYANA ,..GIRLS ARE TOO MUCH RESPONSIBLE AND MATURE SINCE CHILDHOOD THEY ALL KNOW WHAT TO DO OR WHAT NOT TO DO ????THEY ONLY DO WHAT THEIR PARENTS TELL THEM TO DO BECAUSE THEY GAVE BIRTH TO THEM AND SHE HAVE TO PAY THE COST FOR THAT TO BE A GIRL.AND PARENTS ALWAYS PREFER A GIRLS SCHOOL OR GIRLS COLLEGE FOR THEM AND THEY HAVE NO FREEDOM TO TALK TO UNKNOWN MAINLY BOYS.AND EVERY TIME THEY ARE IN BOUNDRIES .EVERY TIME THEY ARE TOLD WHAT TO DO OR WHAT NOT TO DO ?THEY HAVE NO FREEDOM IN THE MATTER OF CHOOSING THEIR CLOTHES.TWO THEORIES WORKS HER ONE FOR BOYS AND ONE FOR GIRLS.ONE SIDE BOYS HAVE ALL FREEDOM OTHER SIDE GIRLS ARE ONLY A LITTLE PART OF THE FAMILY AND SOCIETY.EVERY TIME THEY GAVE UP HER DREAMS ,HER WISHES FOR THE FAMILY AND SOCIETY.WHEN I WAS ABOUT SIX OR SEVEN ….(HM I THINK) THEN IN MY VILLAGE A GIRL HAD BEEN KILLED BY THEIR PARENTS .AT THAT TIME IT WAS JUST A DEATH FOR ME .WHEN I GROW UP IT WAS A KILLING AND LATER I CAME TO KNOW ABOUT THIS THAT OH OHHHHHHHHH IT WAS SO CALLED HONOUR KILLING.IT IS NOT FIRST TIME I M LISTENING THIS KIND OF NEWS FIRST TIME NOT ONLY ME FOR ALL HARYANA’S GIRLS IT IS A OLD THING NOW .IT HAPPENES DAILY SOMETIMES IT BECAMES A NEWS AND SOMETIMES NOT.I ALSO REMEMBER ONE MORE INCIDENT FROM MY CHILDHOOD IT WAS ALSO ABOUT A GIRL (SHE WAS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL I HAVE EVER SEEN BEFORE AND WILL NOT SEE HER AGAIN BECAUSE SHE IS NO MORE LIVE HERE )……….SAME HAPPENED TO HER .SHE ALSO KILLED BY THEIR FAMILY MEMBERS. AND AT THE TIME OF HER DEATH THERE WAS NO POLICE ,,,,,NO LAMENT .BECAUSE NO ANYONE REPORT FOR THAT .AND WHY THEY SHOULD HAVE LAMENT FOR THAT AFTER ALL IT WAS HONOUR FOR THE FAMILY TO SHOW THAT FOR THEIR HONOUR THEY ALSO CAN KILL THEIR GIRL ……..(I WILL NOT CALL THEIR DAUGHTERS BECAUSE IT WAS ONLY A GIRL FOR THE FAMILY AND THERE IS A LOT OF DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GIRL AND A DAUGHTER )……………….AND IF ANY BODY PLEASE ASK THOSE STUPIDS WHAT ABOUT THOSE BOYS WHO WERE ALSO RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS ?AND THE ANSWER WILL BE LIKE THIS NOW ….OHHHHHHHH HOW CAN WE KILL THE BOYS…THEY ARE NOT AS MUSH HONOUR FOR US ….IF WE WILL KILL THEM WHO WILL SUPPORT US .BY D WAY WHERE THERE HONOUR GOES WHEN THEIR SONS TEASE WITH GIRLS ON THE ROAD ,IN BUSES,IN TRAINS ,?????WHY THEIR FAMILIES WANT TO KILL THEM FOR SUCH BLOODY SHAME ???OH HO HOW CAN DO THEY THAT HM THEY ARE NOT THEIR GIRLS AFTER ALL .OH WHAT HAPPENED IF OUR BOY THIS AFTER ALL THIS IS THE AGE FOR THEM TO DO ENJOY BUT THIS THEORY ONLY WORKS FOR BOYS .AND WHICH THEORY WORKS ON GIRLS HM HEY THIS IS ONLY THE AGE FOR GIRLS WHEN THEY SHOULD KNOW HOW TO MAKE ROTIS ??HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HER FAMILY ??HOW TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY ??HOW TO BE MATURE ???WHAT TO SAY OR WHAT NOT TO SAY ??

THAT’S ALL HOWS LIFE IN HARYANA.THIS IS ONLY THE RIGHTS WE HAVE .I THINK ONLY ONE RIGHT EDUCATIONL RIGHT AND PEOPLE WANT TO EDUCATE THEIR GIRLS HERE BECAUSE IF THEY WILL BE SOME EDUCATED THEN THEY WILL FIND A SUITABLE BOY FOR THEM AND THIS IS ONLY A REASON PARENTS WANT TO EDUCATE THEIR GIRLS NOT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO MAKE INDEPENDENT THEIR GIRLS.AND IF ANY GIRL WANT TO LIVE MORE LIFE ON THIS EARTH THEN SHE HAVE TO DO WHAT HER FAMILY SAYS TO HER .AND ITS ALSO NOT A BIG THING NOW FOR US BECAUSE WE BECAME HABITUAL AND IF WE ALSO LOVE OUR LIFE THEN WE ALSO KEEP QUITE AND SIT DOWN ..THATS ALL ABOUT HARYANA AND HARYANA’S GIRLS…..