Why we fail to bring change?
Very logical point why societies are not changing? They do not have problems after having and people like me and you have problems when they do not have problems. They are not changing because they do not have problem. And we are trying to bring a change because we have problems.
Result is clash of thoughts they do not want to improve the things and want to keep them as they are and we want to change those things only because it is affecting our brain, our environment, our life, changing us as an individual and above all obstacles for the growth of nation.
1) There is an employee in government office. He refused to my work done till then I do not bribe him. Another man who is sitting aside me has no problem to give him bribe because he has enough wealth to make her work done in few minutes. Official takes bribe and man’s work is done. He gave and Official took because it has been part of their daily lives and he will not do my work till then I do not pay few pennies to him
I refuse to give him any single penny because it will lead to a corrupt state. My work is pending. It is affecting my mind, environment, my life and above all changing me as an individual.
2) I see a street child who is begging on the road. I talk to him/her ask her where he lives, what his/her parents do. I request his parents to send him/her in school and we are ready to give their children full sport and ready to help them when ever they need us.
But their parents refused to send them in school to say” education is not going to help them to make a better future begging is good when they are earning”.
3) I see a child laborer. I talked to him. Meet to their parents and requested them to send the child in school and they deny to say” what is the problem with you if my child is earning working on a hotel or on a Dhaba? What education will give him? Sooner or later he will be in same business so what the use to send him in school?” After trying hard I am not able to convince them to send their children in school.
4) I meet a lady who has been physically and mentally tortured by her husband. Although she is independent but still doing no protest for the tortures she is getting every day on her body and mind. I ask her why she is not protesting. She gives me enough illogical reasons on the name of so called society and honor. Well what is the use to work me for her when she herself does not want to stand up for her? What is the use of me to make her understand what her rights are? We discuss it on social networking sites women have been beaten , why we do not use” Bell Bajao”. What is the use? When people who are suffering do not have problem?
5) I meet a person who is frustrated from political system. I ask him the reason and he gave me enough reasons. At last I say him why do not you vote for a person whom you trust not the whole community? Why do not you vote for a person whom you think will be capable for you or your community to work in a sincere manner? And he says” how I can stand up alone against a person who belongs to my community?” After giving her enough reasons why he should stand up for right he only shook his head with agreement that “every thing you were telling was nonsense and I will do what I am doing from years”.
6) I meet to a group of parents whose children are studying in a school where instead of students teachers are on bunk. I told them why they do not meet to principal of the school together as the staff is not working with sincerity. And they say” why do not you meet to the principal and talk to him?”.
Then I say it would be good if you parents talk to them because your children are studying there. But they do not want to meet any one to say “Sarkari cheeje to aise hi kaam akrti hai”. Chalti hai to chaliye sir, why blame it on others later when thigns get wrong.
7) I meet to a group of people. Their house was taking good bath in mud due to shiver blockage. I asked them why not you meet to your municipal authorities and village head to fix it right. And you even share number of municipal authorities with them and they say we do not have time to go to municipal authorities’ office. Why do not you do it for us? In our country people want that every thing should be done perfectly and on time but we should not start a fresh in fact a person must do it from us.
What should be your concern for those people? We are making fool of our self among those people who deny changes, who are sitting with clarity that nothing is going to change and not even trying to bring change. They are happy in their atmospheres, in their environment, the way they live and the way they behave and act. And people like us look fool when we try to make them understand who do not want to listen, who does not want to act, who want that every thing should be done for them but by others only. Every act and every punishment is our responsibility because we are working for them. So what if we concern for society and giving our personal lives for that society where people do not want to understand any thing to say” do not try to make us understand we are wise enough to know what we should do”.
And if we find a single person from any society who really wants to bring change it is always satisfying to work for that person, that society and that nation.