Sunday, December 26, 2010

are people really impartial towards women ?

Indian women who is always ready to sacrifice her life for others and she burn  like a candle to give lights to others .still what kind of respect she have in Indian society??we always claim that”jaha women kaa worship hota hai waha god rehta hai “okay I am agree but in today’s time reality is far from this fact because women are not even getting a single percent of that respect as she deserve .we Indian people are known for our kindness .we worship even trees and non living things. But what a hypocrisy !!!! in twenty first century too we lament when a girl child take birth in a family .i do not know when people will be impartial to women.still people think that only a women is responsible what happened to her whether it is a matter of eve teasing and something else.just ask yourself is it not like that ?do not we think that a women is responsible for her bad condition??why we are not changing out mentality ??now our country countryman also became partial towards women .and  .there is a lot of difference between claiming and acting(as we always claim that only we respect the women like god )and when things goes wrong then we tell that it is western culture.i do not think any western country do not want to give respect to women and women’s condition are better there then that our country.but we have became habitual to blame on others for every bad situation .we all know what happened in DHAULA KHUAN case .after the death of that girl villagers of DHAUJI’S village are claiming that the girl was only responsible for what happened to her.they also said that why she choose night shift when it is not safe for girls .and why these places are not safe for them may be because those people send their  family’s anti social aliments on the road ..will any body ask them,  is day shifts are safe for them ??.i do not think there is any girl who want that such thing should be happened to her but those people will never understand the fact because they do not have mind and heart too understand that .for them only girl is responsible what’s happening with them . they will never try to give some moral lessons to their family’s anti social aliment  who are responsible for that.and it is a tragedy crimes against women are increasing day by day .and still many things are going wrong against women on domestic front and baby killing and eve teasing and many crimes .our moral character has been decline too much that every one want to run in the race and want to crush other people.if we need to gain anything once again then it is our moral character and need to think in a bigger  way  .and our politicians who are always ready to speak on HINDU OR MUSLIM they are also quite now…….in last sorry for many grammatical mistakes lol.

20 comments:

  1. well done mamta.m really proud of u ,dere r still people like u who give thought to it.keep it up

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  2. Seriously m speechless. its a prvokin article,.evr1 shud read it..wel done :)

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  3. I feel almost all men are considering girl or woman as a thing,to use as we like, not a person or personality.
    When we agree that every girl or women have personality,then the problem will be solved.
    Mom prepare break fast and tea every day,one day she is late to wale up,then we get angry.We are not even thinking every day she prepare for us,one day ,at least one day, we can prepare our break fast.
    If every man give respect to his wife in front of his children,at least avoid shouting her in front of his children,avoid insulting her in front of her children,then the children will also give her the same respect ,as he/she gives to his/her father.
    Now the status of woman in a house is SERVANT, the only difference is nobody pay for her.
    When all the children,especially boys, getting good education and moral values the problem will be solved.

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  4. @ prakash thanks .
    @saba hey yeah thanks a lot and will always try to keep it up and will also write about other evils what's in our society.

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  5. @rajnish absolutely right rajnish u said very true and this is the reality no matter how much progress what we did.really need to change our mentality first of all and many things will be improve.

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  6. not in india...it is matter of whole world...
    in bihar a woman named RUPAM PATHAK OF purnia...murdered a MLA for revenge....

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  7. realy very nice job..........a lot of thanks
    http://amrendra-shukla.blogspot.com/

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  8. baban very true sir .and i do not think she did anything wrong.he has power that's why he was out of jail .and it was only a solution i think.but now that lady is suffering.so sad from that lady's side.

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  9. thanks i do not know ur name so all is my pleasure patali the village.:)

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  10. The pic is from a RAWA archive...that girl was from Kandhaar...She was given as a gambling debt to a local man by her father...She ran off from her marriage as her husband was old enough to be her grandpa...the local warlords caught her nd flogged nd returned her to her husband, who further beated her...Later she attempted suicide by inflamming herself nd died a painful death after 16 days in a makeshift Herat hospital...Such is the plight of the Afghan woman...Personally I don't like their pain being referred in the Indian context since in India women r much better off...However there r problems everywhere...Hence I made my point...

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  11. @steve wow u really have very very good knowledge but let me tell u steve i am not reffering the girl's pain in indian context.i just put the pic of that girl whom u r talking about.i know in india condition is far better then arabian countries............i am not talking about those ladies who are independent .
    i am also not talking about those ladies who are working on big posts.
    i am talking about those ladies who are suffering and if u are not agree then i will ask u only one question are things not going wrong with women as i wrote here ??is it false??are crime against women are not increasing ??

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  12. @mamta...first of all thanks for appreciating my 'very very good knowledge' which I have acquired as a RAWA activist...however I strictly believe that Indian women r much better off...tragedies r part of life nd will happen to both men nd women...there will never will be a world where every women is happy nd content...Bottomline is that as people of India we live in a system which has it's social nd demographical constituents...we all the time crticize this system nd call it corrupt nd no good, but trust me, it is one of the best in the world...we can make it better as every system has a life cycle...I am an ardent feminist...have worked in Africa, Iran nd Afghanistan nd live in India...the pain that women go through in third world countries is nothing what happens in India...If a girl gets raped whilst coming back from a BPO then it's tragic but not something out of the world...I have seen plight of women who just want to breathe fresh air but r confined for life...their life is like a coffin nd they r packed in it...the moment they make a move out of it they get stoned or flogged...U must understand there is difference of chalk nd cheese between breathing nd working in a BPO...but as per my experience the key to all feminine problems in all spheres is 'women empowerment'...we should work towards it together...on a lighter side if there were more gay men in India then a boy would get raped coming back late at night...so it's not a matter of anti feminist move in India but a matter of law nd order on which our govt is on...this law nd order situations concerns both men nd women, and put's another plight of nation building on us...to know more follow me

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  13. धन्यवाद् - लिंग भेद के खिलाफ आवाज उठाना हम सब का फर्ज और कर्त्तव्य है

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  14. @steve totally agree with you sir.no argue and very true that tragedies are part of life and we all suffer these tragedies.

    and about our system we all know so no comment.there is not any problem in our system but still system is not working properly because we
    (all are not same but still i will use we because there are many after all.so it is better to put we word for them). do not want to take responsibilities and when we want to take then people try to tell us mind our business.

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  15. Mamta very nice point raised but i agree with steave as well and with you as well because coin has both side different and we must see both the sides and then come to an conclusion weather the coin is real or duplicate...!!! i hope u both understood what i mean ..!! n e ways keep sharing knowledge and grow a tree of nice thoughts which will give a nation a bright generation with full of knowledge and courage....!!

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  16. Firstly the picture u shown above is from Revolutionary Association of the Women of Afghanistan (RAWA).
    And about what so called impartial towards womens ,then show me any place in the world where this not happening ? The dark side for womens in european country is not hidden anymore.
    Agree with that girl child thing, girl yea boy child both are sweet there should not be any partiality in this..And about rights yea they should get the rights but who deserve it,its not like woh lady hai toh usko some high position deh do..NOO.regarding to their quality and qualification only,even we have minister like rabri devi,mayawati,sheila dixit,jaya lalitha,that drunker renuka chowdhary and in above all of them that madam,sonia.. all these womens are bloody corrupted and useless & yup dont forgot that b*tch indira gandi.If this u think rights should be given to womens then forgot it,they better sit in home only for the nation sake.
    And if womens need all rights as compareing to mens(and they should get) then womens should also get death sentence punishment like what mens get in killing others...

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